Sometimes you are attracted to a woman, but you are not sure if she is attracted to you.
It’s not very often that a girl goes out and says to a guy, “Hey, I’m really into you. Let’s go on a date!” If so, consider yourself lucky, but even in today’s liberated world, women often leave all the hard work to the guys to set up dates. With online dating, there are different ways to determine if that girl is interested in you, but let’s say you’re dating her in person and looking for clues.
Here are six of the best tracks.
1. Body language
A great way to tell if a girl likes you and is romantically interested is her body language. This often includes distracting hair twirling. If the girl you are dating can’t stop playing with her hair while she is talking to you, this is a sign that she is nervous around you and quite possibly interested in some physical action.
Watch your posture when you are sitting. Does he lean in to hear what you have to say, even when acoustics aren’t an issue? This points to a very high level of attraction on his part to you. Also, be careful about your leg positions if you are sitting across from each other. The legs apart is an inviting pose, almost inviting you to have sex. Cross-legged with one foot pointed directly at you is also a great indicator of sexual interest. The demure pose with legs together, hands on knees is, on the other hand, a sign of lack of interest.
If she is constantly touching you, even a light and seemingly insignificant brush against your arm, this could mean that she is hot for you!
2. It asks if you are on Facebook
If from the very beginning he asks you about your status on Facebook, then this is a great sign of his interest. This will give her the opportunity to follow up with you in a more relaxed, less stressful environment. If your new date also asks for your private email, be prepared for some prolonged contact with this girl. He may even be thinking of sending you some naughty photos, depending on how his other subconscious displays of attraction to you go.
3. She offers to pay for a date.
When a girl wants to pay for the date, this is a great indicator. She is willing to shoulder the financial burden and make a big impression on you. If this is a first date and she pulls her bag out, then she likes you big time.
4. Laughter at inappropriate times
If you’re telling your date a serious or sad story and she laughs at the wrong time, she’s probably so caught up in your eyes that she can’t focus on what you have to say. She wants you bad!
5. Reduce personal space to zero
Most of us like to maintain a minimum physical distance between ourselves and others (personal space). When she narrows this gap down to zero, and is virtually on top of you, then you are clearly a winner with this girl. On the other hand, if you try to do the same thing and she keeps backing away, she definitely doesn’t like you.
6. She lets you drive her home in her car.
When a girl trusts you with her car, there is a very good chance that she will trust you with her body! Be nice to both of you on her date, and you will soon find out if she is attracted to you or not.