So you and your girlfriend broke up, and now you’re trying to figure out the best way to get her back. It doesn’t have to be difficult to get your ex back, although some choose to do so. I know some tips and tricks to get you started in the right direction.
The first thing I tell everyone to do, no matter how bad the relationship has been or how badly you think you need to talk to this girl is…give her some space. The worst thing you can do after a breakup is harass the person. Before he even starts to think about getting back together with you, he’s going to have to miss you a little bit. So do her a favor and don’t talk to her!
I’m not saying you have to be rude, but there’s no need to call her constantly, or even at all. The less you are in her life, the more she will recognize what she is like without you in her. Both men and women suffer when they feel like they can’t have something, so when she feels like she can’t have you, she’ll really start thinking about you again. And that’s a good thing.
As you take some time to separate, take stock of what went wrong in the relationship. What happened to separate them? And before you start playing the “blame game,” remember that there is no such thing as 100% blame in a relationship. As difficult as this can be to hear that it is true. You can’t blame her for everything, and she can’t blame you for everything.
Think about the problems in your relationship, can you overcome those problems? And it’s also important to figure out how to avoid those problems in the future. If you’ve been fighting a lot, find ways to diffuse arguments before they start. Most of these can be resolved by being mature and talking about the issues, and make sure you listen to her. You might be surprised how far it gets you.
Alright, now you have at least an idea of where to start. Go ahead and get your ex girl back. Remember that patience is a virtue and communication is key. It takes time, which is why it is so important that you be patient. If you guys had some love for each other, it might come back, people don’t fall in love by accident, it’s for a reason!