One of the most common complaints women have is that their men are too taciturn and “closed”. They find it difficult to open up and bare their thoughts and feelings, while women find it extremely easy to do so. If you are looking for ways to make your man trust you, take a look at these tips to help you out.
Understand your boy
This is the most important step in getting your man to open up. You are hesitant to talk about your feelings and emotions because you are probably afraid of appearing “weak.” Men are supposed to be strong and have a “stiff upper lip” and relying on their innermost feelings and final thoughts could make them feel insecure.
Make him feel safe with you
As much as women love to feel safe, men do too. Make him feel loved and totally safe in your presence. Don’t pressure him to reveal his thoughts. Instead, praise and congratulate him. Be polite and encourage him to relax with you. Once there is no pressure from your side, it will slowly but surely open.
The time has to be right
There is a time for everything. Just as there is an appropriate time to close your lips and be quiet, there is a time to open up and speak. The trick is knowing WHEN. If you know your man from the inside out, then you need to know when he seems to be most vulnerable and open to your gentle advances. Wait for the right moment and make him trust you.
The union is sublime
Opening up and trusting each other will only come when there is a high level of “bonding and bonding.” Share special, romantic and intimate moments with him. These times will form the basis of a deeper intimacy and trust. Once he trusts you implicitly, he will open up to you.
Take your time to listen
If you haven’t heard it in the past, there is no way it will open up to you now. They will feel like there is no point in sharing their deepest desires, fears, or emotions with you if they haven’t received any encouragement from you in the past. Show him that you really care about his side of the story and he will easily open up to you.
Do not criticize or judge
In the same way, if you’ve been overly critical of him in the past, he’s obviously going to be hesitant to talk to you and reveal his feelings. The best way to make him trust you is to never criticize or judge him. Remember that you are not perfect, so don’t expect him to be.
Don’t mention the past
Women who insist on their past experiences, boyfriends, relationships, etc. they will definitely scare your man and literally prevent him from opening up in case he too is one day discussed or considered a “terrible ex”! Leave the past alone and respect your boy. He will openly open up to you.