Ten quick and easy steps to help you start talking dirty today:
- Choose a role. Simple role. The most cliché is Teacher – student, but it is easier to start. The second most used is Sugar Daddy and Little Girl, and the third is Naughty girl and bad boy. Don’t tell him anything, just pick one. My favorite is Teacher Student, because it is EASIER to do.
- Start out slow. Leave some hints of dirty talk like “I’m going to give you homework tonight, you better be a good girl and do it” gold “Your Sugar Daddy is going to spoil his little girl tonight. “ Y “You are such a naughty girl sometimes, you need spanking from a boy.” First, she will follow the game, almost EVERY girl likes RPG fantasy. She is probably thinking right now “Oh this is going to be fun”. Go ahead and text your girl one of those lines, right now. See what she responds.
- Add a little spice. If you’re having a text conversation on the phone or a late-night conversation, keep going, especially if she’s playing along: “Did you finish your homework like a good student? Or do I have to punish you a bit?” gold “Are you going to dress up for your dad, to impress him tonight, something sexy the way he likes it, or does he need him to tell you what to wear for him? ” Y “I think you’ve been VERY bad tonight and you deserve a spanking.” IF she responded favorably to you in step 2, this is a breeze. If you are in the same room, say “Why don’t you come here? Good girl.”
- Reinforce the positives. Tell her she’s a good girl. Tell him you like how obedient he is. Tell him that he turns you on when he listens to you. Don’t ask “YES / NO” questions when you intend to do something, but do tell“I bet you’ve been so bad, you need spanking, don’t you?”
- Intonation is important! Don’t laugh at you or her. You have to keep it on a fun and serious note. If she’s hesitant to follow or is shy to respond, comment on how cute it is that she’s shy, tell her she’s sexy, but don’t break character. When you say things say them as if you were pretending or playing a game. You say it with the same intonation as if you were flirting but you make it sound slower and deeper. Don’t try to sound sexy. In fact, imagine yourself in “mock land” and you are the actor of the role you took on in Step 1.
- Add more flair to the talk. If you are together, touch it. Don’t do this when other people are around, especially your friends. This is for YOU AND HER. So add some flair, no one’s looking (yet). Touch her, but not on her boobs. If she is a bad student, slap her, if she is a really bad student, bend her on your knees. If it is Sugar Baby, have it sit on your lap and trace its body with your fingers. Talk to her AS IF YOU ARE who you pretend to be. She will follow your example. If she’s a bad girl, hit her harder.
- Do not rush. Role playing is about the game, not rushing to the “bottom line” which is cumming. You want to spend three times more on a pretext than on sex.
- Speak with your emotions instead of your logic. Do not explain what you are doing. Bad: “I’m going to be a teacher and you’re going to be a naughty student” DON’T do that. Assume! Suppose you are a teacher. Don’t start off abruptly, but guide her gently to the paper, saying “You are such a bad girl, if I were your teacher I would give you an F … unless of course we can figure something out …;)”
- Stay in character until you get to sex. Don’t rush like I said, but keep up. You want to be sexual but not have sex. You should be talking dirty to her in the subtext you assumed in step 1, but you should get closer to sex. If she comes down to give you a blowjob, she’s doing it to “Get an A on your project” gold “that’s what daddy wants his sugary baby to do to please him” and if she’s a bad girl “He needs to show how bad he is to a bad boy.”
- Compliment!!! Tell her, especially after you’ve fucked, how amazing she was. Tell her how much you liked talking dirty to her. She enjoyed it as much if not more than you. Tell him you want to do it again THIS WILL OPEN A FLOOD DOOR OF IDEAS!