Recently, ‘walk-in girls’ and ‘grill girls’ have received a lot of exposure in the mainstream media. The main reason for this is that these women will no longer be able to do these jobs.
While these women, as well as other women, are not happy about this; there are other women who are happy with what has happened. Some of the women who are happy with this are ‘feminists’.
Divided
So it would be easy to believe that this is a result that all feminists agree with. And since these are supposed to be women who care about women’s rights, they need to know what’s best for women.
However, this is not the case; since there are a number of feminists who have condemned what happened. For these women, what has happened goes against what they stand for; which is for women to be free to live their own lives.
another barrier
These ‘walk-in girls’ and ‘ring girls’ will have made the decision to work in this type of industry, but this is no longer possible. But the reason this is no longer possible is not because of so-called ‘patriarchy’; no, it’s because of what other women have done.
So it could be said that these feminists are not interested in “liberating” women, this is just an act. What these feminists want is for women to live in a way that is aligned with their own views on how a woman should live her life.
mini tyrants
So one has to ask what motivates these feminists to do what they do and if they are aware of their true motives. Someone like this can imply that he cares about women and wants to improve his life.
Perhaps if they were to step back and look at what is going on inside of them, they might find that they feel completely powerless. Her need to control how other women live their lives is thus a way of experiencing control.
bad press
Clearly, when so many feminists behave this way, it’s not doing feminism any favors. Still, one could say that it was only a matter of time before these feminists turned on the very people they were supposed to help.
Men in general have long been a target of these types of feminists, so hopefully they’ll move on to try it on women. Based on the behavior of these feminists, it might be a good idea for them to let go of their need to change the world and deal with their inner world instead.
Self destruction
So this is similar to how someone can gently prod a dog and nothing will happen, but if they go any further the dog will turn around and bite them. In the same way, these feminists have been verbally abusing men for years and nothing has really happened, but as these feminists have gone a step further and started undermining women, they may find it more hard to get away with it. type of behavior
If this is what happens, it does not mean that they will be able to figure out why it has happened. Due to the fact that these types of feminists often lack self-awareness, there is a strong possibility that they will become victims.
The usual approach
So this can be seen as a sign of how downtrodden they are, as opposed to the fact that they played a part in their own downfall. What this scenario has a lot in common is when a stalker provokes someone and, over days and weeks, this person ends up fighting back and hitting him.
However, instead of the bully realizing why this has happened, they pretend they are the victim. So it may seem that this type of feminist is unaware when she is victimizing others, but she is all too aware when she is being victimized (or believes she is being victimized),
This may show that they can only work in one of two ways; either they are the victim or they are the perpetrator. There is no other way for you to experience life.
Another example
And when they’re on TV, for example, it’s often a challenge for them to control themselves. Or if they don’t seem emotionally out of control, they may seem like they’re dead inside.
When it comes to the former, they will have a hard time thinking rationally and are likely to appear crazy, leading some people to believe that all feminists are crazy. But it doesn’t end there, as this type of behavior will have a negative effect on how some men perceive women.
black and white thinking
Now, you could say that very few feminists are like that and neither are many women, so it shouldn’t matter what a small minority does. However, one of the main reasons they will have a negative effect on this movement and on women comes down to the amount of exposure they receive.
For example, a man may believe that “women are too emotional,” and after seeing one of these feminists on television, he will validate what he believes. Then her mind will block out examples of when women don’t behave this way, but this won’t be any different than when a feminist believes all men are bad guys or rapists, for example.
conclusion
If all feminists had the same agenda and were mentally balanced human beings, it would be easier for this movement to create the right impression. What is clear is that it will be much better for this movement if the only feminists given a platform are the mentally healthy ones.
Having feminists on TV, who should probably be working on their own issues and not trying to change the world, will do more harm than good. The problem is that because they lack self-awareness and run away from themselves, it can be incredibly difficult for them to get the help they desperately need, in the same way that an addict is often the last person to believe they have a problem.