Jealousy can be a valuable thing to arouse suspicion and keep you from harm and pain, but it is the most destructive to your love life. Are you a jealous person? How to deal with jealousy?
The first thing you have to do is know what makes you jealous.
You see, there are many causes for jealousy in a man, and unless you know what the cause is, you can’t find the right treatment, after all, diagnosis is half the treatment.
You may be jealous because other men seem to like her and are attracted to her all the time.
You may be jealous because your ex called you recently
You may be jealous because she is wearing sexy clothes.
You may be jealous because you have a secret pin on your mobile phone
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Jealousy can have many causes, so you need to know which ones you’re dealing with.
The second thing you will need to do is get rid of as many causes as possible.
It is very important that you only select those that you are quite sure of.
Don’t be jealous of everything he does.
Your ex may have called you recently. Ask her about it in a calm and confident way and listen to her explanations. He may be a needy guy that he couldn’t stand for her to leave him. Don’t be a needy guy too when dealing with it; be cool and confident about it.
To do this, you will have to get a pencil and paper.
Write down all your doubts about jealousy and write next to them the reasons why you feel that way, after a few lines, you will start to notice that some reasons are totally false and that you were simply driven by your emotions.
You should also keep this issue in mind:
She may be testing you.
Yes, your exams can be very challenging for you. After all, she needs to know if you’re man enough for her.
Be confident in your tests and rest assured that she will test you more than you want.
Your tests might look something like this:
She will laugh at a stupid joke a guy told her.
She may be telling you how good Joe is and how nice he is to her.
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Be careful; Don’t be mad at her, instead of her you must use my secret weapon.
I call it: the “whatever” attitude.
Use it whenever you feel like he is testing you using jealousy.
After a few times, she will be the one feeling jealous and will expect you to reassure her.
My last piece of advice on the subject is: get tough.
Develop high self-esteem, don’t let jealousy dominate and ruin your life.
It happens and it will happen to you. This is why you have to be ready and let him know that you are strong and mature enough to handle his tricks and visit my website to know more about how to deal with women and how to achieve success with them.