Do cute boys have to have as much game as normal boys (or less than normal boys)? Does your appearance matter as much as you think?
If you’re like the vast majority of men in the seduction community, you may already have an opinion on this. Some say yes, some say no. But there is a test to see what your real position is. Ask yourself: if a handsome “natural” with no involvement in the Pickup Community started telling you about his great luck and professing that he is capable of proving to any man who does what he does… how would you respond? ?
You might tell him to hit the bricks if you’re not as natural as him.
One look at this guy will tell you that he is no “Average Young Man”. As if his Harvard education wasn’t enough, he has the kind of looks that will grab women’s attention without even opening their mouths to ask, “Who’s lying more?” That’s why many people might tell you that Paul Janka’s Attraction Formula eBook is a complete misuse of money and time.
The truth is that Paul most likely never implemented that line because he is what you would call an “outsider” to the community. He invented his tactics without even looking at Mystery Method, Ross Jeffries, local pick-up dens or pick-up forums.
And this guy says he’s going to teach you how to pick up women?
Yes, I was skeptical at first too. But I’ve heard of guys who are very successful with their stuff. I saw him in Doctor Phil training one of his students…a pretty normal looking guy. For God’s sake, I’m more handsome, and I thought if it worked for that guy, it would work for me too. So I took the book from him.
From here on, things didn’t turn out the way I expected.
I knew that Paul Janka’s methods consist of super fast escalation and ejection. I found it quite intimidating to begin with, and thought I’d get a lot of advice on how to captivate my target with my looks and dazzle her with canned routines.
On the other hand, Paul’s emphasis is generally on the inside game. It’s about developing the right mindset before you even start approaching girls… and bringing the girl into your body once you’ve hooked her.
Still, I had a hard time believing that this guy could actually teach me anything new about meeting the ladies. He may have a very strong natural game, but how can a guy with so little involvement in the community have anything new to say?
Turns out that’s his greatest strength.
Simply because Paul Janka comes in from outside the community, he brings a unique mindset and talks about things you might not otherwise think about. For example, there is a lot of talk about relationship management and, in particular, managing multiple long-term relationships. Paul Janka, who recently started a long-term relationship, certainly has something to say about it.
The process of preventing relationships is something that isn’t typically approached as a strategy often: forget the emotional complexity of keeping up with a harem…here’s how you can date multiple women without giving them the impression that a long term. the relationship will eventually develop.
But that is, of course, one of the advantages of being an outsider like Paul Janka: you’re not thinking in the same beats that everyone else is thinking in. The Attraction Formula is packed with information and advice you won’t find anywhere else… it even has an entire section dedicated to organizing your dates according to girls’ menstrual cycles!
However, Paul Janka’s formula of attraction isn’t for everyone, so I really don’t want to give that impression.
One of the main weaknesses of the Janka method is that it is generally applicable to day game in big cities. Janka is from New York, and her whole approach presupposes meeting a lot of women just for hanging out. That’s not going to happen in a small town or suburb.
Doing the rounds in a club or bar and collecting as many numbers as you can while using their lightning fast five minute then kick tactics is likely to reflect badly on you, so this routine is preferably suitable for city streets where the people are running from one place to another. Besides, it’s not likely they’ll meet again… so there’s no prospect of future awkwardness.
There’s a steep learning curve here and even advanced guys will probably struggle at first. It would be hard to say that this method is one of the easiest to master. Paul Janka’s game assumes a certain skill in opening, escalation, and basic conversation…otherwise there’s just no way to get digits out that fast.
So basically, you should probably look elsewhere unless you’re 100% dedicated to perfecting a blazing-fast method of getting daytime numbers and dates.
But if you’re not afraid to try something a little different, you’ll be amazed at how quick and effective this “strange” method really is!