be understanding
His wife suddenly started talking about breast augmentation surgery. If you don’t know why, find out. Listen to her. Try to find out how she feels about her body and her breasts. Try to find out if she has done anything (most likely not) or if there is anything she can do to help you solve these problems (most likely not). In general, a woman’s relationship with her body is something you can’t change, no matter how many times you tell her (sincerely) how much you love her just the way she is.
be supportive
If your wife decides she wants to have the surgery, support her. Encourage her in the process of gathering information and finding a doctor. Don’t put her off and try to find ways to talk positively about the surgery without disparaging her current body (since it may not end with her after all). Show enthusiasm and a moderate amount of initiative. Too much emotion will of course imply that you are not happy with her current body, but you should definitely make her believe that you feel the surgery will be good for her. Do a little research on her own, and it doesn’t hurt to bring a small gift every now and then to help ease her stress and anxiety.
Be honest
Many advice columns on breast enlargement and husbands say that it’s totally your decision and you just have to deal with it. not so The Bible says that man and woman are one flesh, and whether you are religious or not, the truth is that you will have to live with the results of her breast augmentation surgery for as long as she wants. Every time you see it, every time you touch it, the breast implants will be there. Breast augmentation surgery can cause complications with breastfeeding if you are considering having more children. Even if the decision is ultimately yours, she needs to take into account her feelings about it and you need to make her feelings clear. Breast augmentation surgery can solve some major problems for some couples, but if you hold back your feelings, it can also lead to problems later on.
If you are worried that your wife is having this surgery to get the attention of other men, say so. It’s not hers, but it won’t help her or you if you suppress this feeling, because no matter what happens to her, she’ll get more attention from other men. She nips jealousy in the bud and they’ll both be happy.
The husband and wife also usually have a single bank account. And even if you have separate accounts and work separate jobs, unless you itemize all expenses to ensure that neither of you takes financial responsibility for the other, you will most likely take a financial hit as a result of your expenses. surgery. Express your feelings about the cost. Make sure you feel like this is a worthwhile investment and that you won’t blame her for the expense. Help her consider her financing options for breast augmentation surgery to find a solution you can both live with. Money is one of the most common sources of tension between couples and you have to make sure that you are not adding to the problems and not just the breasts.
Be involved
Your wife will have a lot to do before the surgery. First, she will have to make decisions about the size, shape, and fill of her breast implants. She can walk around in bras filled with baggies or socks filled with rice or couscous to try on her size. Find out what size you are testing and provide useful information. Don’t try to guide her in choosing her size, but definitely help her make a decision. When she is researching, help her make sure she has considered all surgical options. Look at photos of her before and after breast augmentation with her and discuss them candidly. Meet her doctor. Make sure you trust this man or woman to put your wife under the knife. Give her opinion to help her choose her cosmetic surgeon, but be sure not to be overprotective or jealous. If your wife wants her to be at the consultation, join in, but make sure you’re mainly listening. Let your wife talk to the doctor. If your spouse can’t or won’t talk to the doctor, he/she may not be the right choice. Give honest and direct answers when asked.
Also make sure your children participate as well. They will not have to make any decisions, but they will be uncomfortable and they will realize it. Your behavior will be a guide for them. If you support them, they will too. Answer their questions honestly and directly. Trying to hide something or be evasive will make them more curious.
To be prepared
Make sure you know what to expect after breast augmentation surgery. Once your wife’s surgery is over, you’ll need to take full care of her for at least a day or two. Make sure you’re prepared to do that, including:
Organize time off from work
Put out a supply of food you can cook
Find out where everything is, so you don’t have to ask
Fill your prescriptions and keep them close at hand
Help her prepare her bed by buying extra pillows or a bed wedge if needed (she’ll have to sleep upright for a while)
Make sure you know what the children’s needs and schedules are.
Find out how you’re going to keep the kids from teasing her.
Find ways your children can help without being too demanding with feedback.
· Get their gifts throughout the recovery. Good gifts include:
or jewelry
o Body lotion and bath supplies.
oFlowers
o New clothes that you think will look good on her new figure (save the receipts!)
Be mentally prepared for any and all of the following
o She will be in pain
o She may be delighted with her results
o She may be upset about her results
o She may be depressed
o She may be manic
o She may be angry
o She can be all of the above in turns
o She may have nausea
o She may need a lot of medicine
o She may have complications
o You may have to sleep on the floor
o You may be the worst part of your emotion
o You may be ecstatic with your results
o You may be upset about your results
o May be depressed, manic, or angry in turns
o You cannot touch your breasts for three weeks after surgery
o Your love life will never be the same (it will probably be better!)
Once your wife has recovered, her newfound confidence will lead to changes in her behavior. He will also want to buy clothes that show off her new body. He can dress more provocatively, both in public and in private. She may not hide as much or try to avoid you seeing her naked.
She will get more attention from men on the street. This is quite unavoidable, and is not a cause for concern. She takes glances as compliments and don’t get defensive. Point them out to your wife as positive things that can help complete the results of the surgery: a happier, healthier woman.